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You need to realize that my grandmother was a lady. She'd been an executive secretary in her working days, and there was a dignity about her that somehow hadn't translated into subsequent generations. Genteel, she was. Prim. Proper even.
That's why the budgie picture is such a delight. If it is possible for my grandmother to relax enough to tolerate a bird in her hair - and allow a photograph! -- then it is possible for anyone to let go, let down and play. She knew what could happen. She knew what birds do . . . and she yet, let it sit there, let this fragile little creature just be.
The approaching summer will bring opportunities, and if we're not careful we'll find ourselves too busy . . . too tired . . . too dignified . . . too preoccupied . . . to step outside the lives of our safe and comfortable everyday. We'll be too worried about being careful . . . tooconcerned about acting our age . . . too busy thinking about tomorrow to pay attention today.
And yet: When something knocks on your door and asks, "Can [your name] come out to play? remember. You can't know if this invitation is one of many or the last one that may come your way. Life is like that.
I have a new bumper sticker that says, "Don't Postpone Joy." I think this is what Alice Walker had in mind when she wrote inThe Color Purple, "I think it [irritates] God when you walk by the color purple in a field somewhere and don't notice it.” (Those of you who remember the book will realize I've tidied up the verb somewhat, although I admit the sentiment was more effective written her way!)
Joy, playfulness, doing your version of letting a budgie sit on your head - these are our human ways of saying "thank you" to the Universe for the gift of life - long life, short life, whatever weeks and days and years remain.
So, here's my summer wish for you: Let the budgie of happiness sit on your head. Recognize there are consequences, but live with it. Let your motto be, "Don't Postpone Joy." Make room for happiness, make time for play. Every day.
Copyright 2005 Maureen Killoran
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Maureen Killoran, MA, DMin, is an ordained Unitarian Universalist minister who specializes in helping congregations make successful transitions after the departure of their previous minister. She has served congregations in Oregon, North Carolina, Georgia, Pennsylvania, Florida and other locations. She is pleased to offer individual transition coaching by telephone, for a limited number of clients. Her website is http://www.spiritquest.ws
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